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How To Know If Your Lover Is A Leader Or A Boss



If you marry a leader, you are are blessed!

If you marry a boss, it’s like being in a box!

How do you know a leader lover and a boss leader?

The role of a husband is a dynamic and a skillful one. It requires a lot of wisdom and tact.

A husband is supposed to be the head of the house, but he is not supposed to be the wife’s headache!

The eyes are located in the head, so the family is supposed to see through the husband/father.

So when the husband is not seeing rightly or correctly, he can cut down his wife and children, maim their productivity, stifle their expression, mute their sound and kill every fibre of creativity in them.

Remember the man seeing men as trees?

Don’t mistakenly give him a cutlass.

Mark 8:24 (KJV)

And he looked up, and said, I see men as trees, walking.

A boss leaders shows his tool of trade from the very day you fall in love with him.

He monitors you to a point that monitoring spirits realize they don’t know their work. They need to come and learn.

You can hardly breathe.

You must report all your movements. You are not yet married o!

He has charge of your ATM! He controls your finances. He calls the shots and you are not yet married.

Do you know there are families of many years in marriage and it is still the husband that writes the list of items to get in the market and the change must be complete afterwards?

I am a counsellor, so you better believe what I am saying here. I lie not, this happened. I was as surprised as you are right now.

That is not only a boss husband, but also a boss father!

A boss lover is a threatened fellow. And he shows it to you from the very beginning.

A boss husband would rather suffer financially than allow his wife to do well financially than himself.

He would discourage her from improving herself all because he doesn’t want a wife that is well read or would learn more than him.

What a selfish, myopic and sadistic way of thinking!

But it is a reality!

The lover you are not married to that is already punishing you for coming late?

The lover you are not married to that already told you to cut off all your friends?

The lover you are not married to that you are already cooking and packaging food for on a daily babies and sometimes at the expense of your own work?

Some people need to borrow themselves brain o!

The lover you are not married to and is already telling you not go to church and prayer meetings?

The lover you are not yet married to and he is already insisting on jeru trip without considering that he is violating your conscience and desecrating the institution of marriage?

The lover you are not married to who is already singing and sounding in your ears that he is the head of the house? Which house? That one room?

The lover you are not married to and you already have sleepless nights and you are downing tablets everyday?

The lover you are not married to and you are already into serial abortion? And all he has to say is that he is the one paying for it?

Whose body? Whose womb is in danger? Who goes through the trauma? The guilt?

The lover you are not married to and you are already a dry-cleaner, washing singlets and boxers every weekend? Hiann!

I can go on and on.

But I will advise you, be careful with a boss lover!

And sometimes, in an unbelievable twist of events and reversal of roles, it is the lady that is the boss leader!

Yes, I joke not! You should equally be careful of bossy ladies, for that will lead to frustration few years after walking down the aisle.

Control freaks are not nice people.

I think I should stop here, but I believe you already got the point?

I pray that God will direct you and order your steps. 

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  1. Unknown

    March 18, 2019 at 10:14 pm

    Woooow … Cool

  2. Onos Elijah

    March 18, 2019 at 10:28 pm

    Thanks for your comments it means a lot to me.

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John Cena Officially Joins Fast & Furious 9



John Cena has officially signed on to join the cast of Fast & Furious 9 ahead of the start of principal photography later this month.

Universal confirmed Cena’s involvement. Although specifics of the former professional wrestler’s are being kept under wraps, he’ll be portraying a character described as “a badass.” Otherwise, nothing else about his role has been disclosed.

Vin Diesel claimed in an Instagram video in April that Cena would join the cast of the upcoming sequel in an undisclosed role, with the latter also appearing in the former’s video. However, the studio had not yet confirmed the casting. Transitioning from professional wrestling to higher profile film roles, Cena had a major role in this past December’s Bumblebee and is in talks to join the cast of James Gunn’s upcoming Suicide Squad film. Hobbs & Shaw star and fellow former wrestler Dwayne Johnson is not expected to appear in the Fast & Furioussequel.

Fast & Furious 9will be helmed by Justin Lin, who directed the third, fourth, fifth and sixth entries in the Fast & Furiousfranchise. Fast & Furious 9is slated for a May 22, 2020 release.

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You met a girl and you both fell in love..

Months pass by and you still going strong then she gets attached, calls you all the time, double texts you, makes you her WhatsApp profile picture, she sleeps over at your house whenever you ask her to, she takes you to movies with her own money, she does everything to make you HAPPY.. Later, she starts hearing rumours, she confronts you and you deny (as usual).

She catches you with different girls you apologise and she forgives you because she loves you. She starts to be skeptical about herself, starts feeling like she is not enough for you, she is not beautiful enough, you cheat time and time again, she tries fighting for the relationship but she realizes that she is fighting alone.

She walks away and you don’t even try stopping her because 900+ likes means you can get any girl you want.. Months later you are in a relationship with a new girl that is more beautiful, more curvy than her.. You take cute pictures and you start posting them with cute captions. She finds out and it broke her because you have never posted her pictures nor made her your WhatsApp Dp before…

“She is still trying to get over you”…

Your new girl cheats on you so you walk away and move from relationship to relationship.. unfortunately, they don’t just happen over night.. You then realize that she is the only girl that has ever loved you💯.. the only girl that had your back..Your RIDE or DIE..

You try messaging her and she blocked your ass cause seeing your pictures with that girl broke her.

One day, while at the mall you bump into her and she is still beautiful and you decide to talk to her, to tell her you are sorry and try to fix things but a guy shows up and holds her hand. She tells you it’s her boyfriend and they came to celebrate their one year anniversary.

By then you’ll realize that you lost the moon while counting the stars.


Men cherish what you’ve got and be satisfied.

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Men Have Pains Too



A woman said to me, ‘It took me years to really know that men cry too.  I took my husband for a super human.  I see him leave the house everyday and come back providing for us.  One day as I have left the house and he was at home,  I remembered that I needed to take something along,  I turned back and headed home.  As I got home,  I tried going through the back  door which was closer to the window of our room.  I heard my husband crying like a baby asking God to help me get a job so I can help him fend for the family.  He has never complained to me before but that day,  I broke down in tears realizing that my husband has held much of his pains alone”  

A young married lady went to her mother and complained that her husband has not always bought  things she wanted from him. The mother asked her, ‘How many of those things have you bought for yourself?”. She stayed quiet and said, ‘But he is my husband?”. The mother replied her, ‘Have you ever found out the things your husband wants you to buy for him?”. Men always try to hide their pains. 

A woman was invited to preach at women conference and as she was preaching,  she asked all the working class women to stand out.  They humbly did.  And she asked them, ‘When you get your salary, how much do you give to your  husband as a seed?”. Before your money gets to anywhere else, the priest in your life which is your husband should get something from you.  Even if he is a rich man,  sow seed in his life.  Sometimes,  we women don’t know that our husbands need something from us”. Men can be financially broke and pretend to have everything.

Most men are married but they have lonely life.  Sometimes, ask your husband out.  Men are not always busy as women think. 

You have to understand that your husband has pains and needs too.  Don’t judge him by things you want from him.  Sometimes,  your husband doesn’t have things you want. 

Men also have emotional needs and problems. Men still cry for love.

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Gangan! See What Instagram Did To The Lady That Went Nak3d During The UEFA Final.



Instagram deletes Kinsey Wolanski Sue’s account after Champions League stunt where she invaded the pitch yesterday during the Champions League final in Madrid

Kinsey Wolanski took centre stage alone at Atletico Madrid’s Wanda Metropolitano stadium when she raced across the pitch in skimpy swimwear while Liverpool and Tottenham players looked on.

After this stunt, the 22-year-old’s Instagram followers grew from 230,000 followers to two million in the space of a night.

Explaining why she stripped off in Madrid, she wrote on Instagram:-

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The Ephesians 5 Man



Everyone is always putting emphasis on women being a proverbs 31 woman. Her being pure, her being a godly woman, but personally I believe more emphasis should be on the man being pure, the man being godly and keeping his body as a temple and if as a man you desire a proverbs 31 woman, you must first be an Ephesians 5 man. You can’t ask for Ruth, but keep sexing and lusting after Jezebel.  

A subject that’s heavily overlooked is the equipping of men becoming the godly force and spiritual leader in the relationship and marriage. Men who will tell a woman…..

“I will protect your purity not stain it. 

“I will present you to the altar without spot, blemish or wrinkles” 

“I will be your head and not play with your head” 

“I will make sure you forget your heart was ever broken not the one who shatters it” 

You know how many times we’ve heard women saying.. “I have a good man” I mean at least he works, provides for us and is there for our children and at least he’s trying. 

I always wonder why are these women impressed with bare minimum qualities? 

A man is supposed to work, provide and be a Father. That’s not an accomplishment. That’s bare minimum quality… at least he comes home, at least he’s not in jail.. What??? 

Know this, if you have to say “at least” then your standard is too low! 

A man that thinks providing for a woman is strictly financial don’t know how to provide at all. A man that knows how to provide provides reliability, dedication, trust, understanding, listening ear, knowledge, motivation, stability and direction for the family. 

A lot of women get with men that only provides monetarily and they are miserable. Some of these women allow themselves to settle for less, be cheated on, abused, disrespected and all just because he’s taking care of her finance. 

“I’d rather be miserable with you than be happy apart is crazy not love.” To have this mindset where you are thinking you’d rather be in a bad relationship than to be truly loved has to be the lowest you can get. 

What does a godly man looks like? 

He’s an Ephesians 5 man. He’s a man who values God more than his next breath. 

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