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How To Know If Your Lover Is A Leader Or A Boss



If you marry a leader, you are are blessed!

If you marry a boss, it’s like being in a box!

How do you know a leader lover and a boss leader?

The role of a husband is a dynamic and a skillful one. It requires a lot of wisdom and tact.

A husband is supposed to be the head of the house, but he is not supposed to be the wife’s headache!

The eyes are located in the head, so the family is supposed to see through the husband/father.

So when the husband is not seeing rightly or correctly, he can cut down his wife and children, maim their productivity, stifle their expression, mute their sound and kill every fibre of creativity in them.

Remember the man seeing men as trees?

Don’t mistakenly give him a cutlass.

Mark 8:24 (KJV)

And he looked up, and said, I see men as trees, walking.

A boss leaders shows his tool of trade from the very day you fall in love with him.

He monitors you to a point that monitoring spirits realize they don’t know their work. They need to come and learn.

You can hardly breathe.

You must report all your movements. You are not yet married o!

He has charge of your ATM! He controls your finances. He calls the shots and you are not yet married.

Do you know there are families of many years in marriage and it is still the husband that writes the list of items to get in the market and the change must be complete afterwards?

I am a counsellor, so you better believe what I am saying here. I lie not, this happened. I was as surprised as you are right now.

That is not only a boss husband, but also a boss father!

A boss lover is a threatened fellow. And he shows it to you from the very beginning.

A boss husband would rather suffer financially than allow his wife to do well financially than himself.

He would discourage her from improving herself all because he doesn’t want a wife that is well read or would learn more than him.

What a selfish, myopic and sadistic way of thinking!

But it is a reality!

The lover you are not married to that is already punishing you for coming late?

The lover you are not married to that already told you to cut off all your friends?

The lover you are not married to that you are already cooking and packaging food for on a daily babies and sometimes at the expense of your own work?

Some people need to borrow themselves brain o!

The lover you are not married to and is already telling you not go to church and prayer meetings?

The lover you are not yet married to and he is already insisting on jeru trip without considering that he is violating your conscience and desecrating the institution of marriage?

The lover you are not married to who is already singing and sounding in your ears that he is the head of the house? Which house? That one room?

The lover you are not married to and you already have sleepless nights and you are downing tablets everyday?

The lover you are not married to and you are already into serial abortion? And all he has to say is that he is the one paying for it?

Whose body? Whose womb is in danger? Who goes through the trauma? The guilt?

The lover you are not married to and you are already a dry-cleaner, washing singlets and boxers every weekend? Hiann!

I can go on and on.

But I will advise you, be careful with a boss lover!

And sometimes, in an unbelievable twist of events and reversal of roles, it is the lady that is the boss leader!

Yes, I joke not! You should equally be careful of bossy ladies, for that will lead to frustration few years after walking down the aisle.

Control freaks are not nice people.

I think I should stop here, but I believe you already got the point?

I pray that God will direct you and order your steps. 

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    March 18, 2019 at 10:14 pm

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    March 18, 2019 at 10:28 pm

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Johnny Drille thrilled his Fans at the 2nd Edition of his “Johnny’s Room Live” in Lagos



The Lagos edition of Johnny’s Room Live was nothing short of superb as the concert held at the Muri Okunola Park, Victoria Island Lagos on Sunday, 27th of October, 2019.

The show was entertaining, interactive and fun for everyone in attendance thanks to the thrilling performances from different musical acts including the winners of the “Enter Johnny’s Room” challenge, Sydney, Tega, and Cillsoul who were the opening acts of the night.

The electrifying entrance of Johnny Drille to the stage added more adrenaline rush in the mammoth crowd who were already getting serenaded by the opening acts. The alternative-rock singer performed a good number of both his collection and that of his role model, American rapper and singer, Jon Bellion. His energetic and scintillating performances sent fans haywire, as they kept asking for more.

The night also saw Johnny introducing his parents and siblings present at the concert to his fans, not forgetting to appreciate them for the support and love they’ve shown over the years.

Surprise performances from 10-year-old Temilayo Sax, as well as from Ric Hassani, Ladipoe, Niniola, Di’ja, Adekunle Gold, and Broda Shaggi, who all performed alongside Johnny Drille, left the audience exhilarated as they delivered stellar numbers.

Douglas Jekan – Host

Johnny Drille & Niniola performing

Johnny Drille & Adekunle Gold performing

Cillsoul performing

Johnny Drille & Temilayo Sax performing

Johnny Drille & Di’ja performing

Johnny Drille & Ric Hassani performing

Broda Shaggi performing

Ladipoe performing

The major highlight of the event was when a fan, simply identified as Anthony, proposed to his heartthrob while Johnny was performing his hit single, ‘Romeo and Juliet’. Other celebrities present were Mavins record label boss, Don Jazzy and label mate, Dr Sid.

Johnny Drille performing

MTV Base, Guinness Gold, Schweppes, Cakes Pond and Johnny Walker who were the sponsors of the Lagos Johnny’s Room Live, did well to entertain everyone present with their various products.

Johnny Drille serenading the mammoth crowd at Muri Okunola Park

Although the following morning was a Monday, which is typically busy in Lagos, fans stayed till the end of the show that lasted into the night.

Overall, Johnny Drille, whose ‘Finding Efe’ recently won the Headies award for the Best Alternative song had an amazing outing which has left fans anticipating the 2020 Lagos edition of Johnny’s Room Live.

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Yemi Alade Came, Saw & Conquered as she kicked off “WOS” World Tour in Ethiopia



In support of her acclaimed fourth studio album Woman of SteelYemi Alade has embarked on a world tour and her first stop was Addis Ababa, Ethiopia.

The award-winning Afro-pop powerhouse hit Ghion Hotel, Addis Ababa to thrill over 10,000 fans who attended the high-profile concert.

Armed with her band and dancers, Yemi Alade made fans dance, cry and move while performing revamped versions of her songs.

Check the photos below:


Photo Credit: @yemialade

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It’s all about the Joker and his Quinn for Nicki Minaj & Kenneth Petty’s Halloween Costume



Nicki Minaj and her husband Kenneth Petty proved that their Halloween was all tricks and no treats with their elaborate couple costume.

To commemorate their first Halloween as a married pair, the duo chose to dress as Suicide Squad’s Joker and Harley Quinn and they totally nailed it.

Nicki and Kenneth went all out with their costumes, opting for genuine wigs, clown makeup and tons of props, including Harley’s baseball bat and the Joker’s creepy painted on smile.

See the photos below:

Photo Credit@polcurucz

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Lagos Fashion Week 2019 Recap: The Trending Moments On The Runway, Unmissable Street Style & All the TECNO Fashion Scoop!



Hi OnosElijahFans!

From the Runways, Street Style, Backstage, Fashion Parties – Lagos Fashion Week 2019 has been fun-filled and very exciting! Our handy companion, the  TECNO Camon 12 Prohas been very helpful through this period, apart from the lightweight of the phone which makes it easy to fit anywhere, it is simply the best way to capture all the fast-moving action

With super PD focus technology, it tracks and captures sequences of moving objects in sharp focus, so there will be no more blurred shots for us! With many of the fashion shows taking place in the evenings and at nighttime, we are assured of catching even the most unexpected moments in the blink of an eye.

Need a recap of Lagos Fashion Week 2019? See all the fun we had at this year’s Fashion Business Series event tagged “The Gathering”, everything juicy from the street style stars all 4 days, and all the unmissable runway moments and Spring/Summer 2020 collections.

From the biggest celebrities that walked the runway to the most talked-about shows plus all the unmissable street style looks – we’ve got you covered. Keep scrolling to see the most buzzed about moments from Lagos Fashion Week 2019.


While the sun was scorching outside, fashion faves found the uber-chic TECNO Booth inside the air-conditioned tent for stalls. Not only was this a cool space to chill before the shows started, but the unique booth also had really pretty decor that formed the perfect backdrop for selfies and of course, lots of fun snaps with the new TECNO Camon 12 Pro. It easily was one of the most frequented stands in the building.

Celebrities on the runway

Designers gave their shows a jolt of energy using some of the biggest names in Fashion, Entertainment, and Music to open and close their shows, fans all over cheered them on as they strut their stuff.

Toke Makinwa walking for Yutee Rone

Shot on Camon 12 Pro

Ike Onyema closing the ILI show


Toni Tones on the DZYN runway

Perri Shakes-Drayton, Rema, DJ Spinall walking for the Tokyo James x TTYA show


Bolanle, Kaylah Oniwo, Venita Akpofure, Bolanle Olukanni for the Darling Nigeria Show


Ike Onyema, Mike Edwards and Teddy A walking for Ugo Monye



Kim Oprah and Beverly Osu walking for Emmy Kasbit


Daring Street Style

Of course, we can’t deny the incredible street style! As expected, the showgoers came out in their most daring, statement-making looks – these outfits set the tone for the trends for the season ahead. We captured some of the best styles on our TECNO Camon 12 Pro, check out some of our faves bell


This post is brought to you by TECNO Camon 12 Pro

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“Imperfect me, Grateful heart, Great warrior, Super woman” – #BBNaija’s Khloe Rings in 26th Birthday



Big Brother Naija 2018 housemate, Khloe is a year older today. The reality TV star was treated to a surprise pre-birthday party by friends and colleagues which she describes as “the best pre-birthday gift ever”.

Khloe took to her Instagram to share beautiful photos of herself rocking an all black two piece bikini and we think it’s just right to anticipate another big #BBNaija birthday party very soon.

Captioning the photos, she wrote: “Imperfect me Grateful heart Great warrior Super woman”


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“I lied, I cheated, I took your love for granted” – Iceberg Slim Apologises to Ex Juliet Ibrahim



“I lied, I cheated, I took your love for granted” – Iceberg Slim Apologises to Ex Juliet Ibrahim

Rapper Iceberg Slim has written a public apology to his ex, actor Juliet Ibrahim.

Iceberg Slim began by thanking Juliet, who confirmed their breakup last October, for everything.

“You loved me unconditionally, even at my lowest points, and only wanted honesty and love in return. Unfortunately, I’ve failed you,” he said.

He continued: “I lied, I cheated, I took your love for granted… and in turn brought ridicule and shame on you.”

He added that he’s speaking up now because “in life, sometimes you have to reveal, in order to heal”.

See his apology below:



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